Just be_anhest!

If you spend enough time around me, I can guarantee two things will happen…

First, I will insult you with my honesty.

Then, I will reveal to you something you didn’t know about yourself.

This happens every time because I have an uncontrollable curiosity to understand human behavior and the mind.

Sounds cool right?

Well, my mom didn’t think so. She often said, “you ask too many questions, just do it”.

My closest friends often said “here she goes again” while rolling their eyes.

My ex-boyfriend for sure didn’t think it was cool. He often said, “stop analyzing me”.

The people I loved most hated my ability to break down their public and private psychology.

Meanwhile, I had clients paying me by the hour to help them break through mental limitations.

I was torn… I thought the truth was something EVERYONE wanted to know.

I’ve learned that there are only 2 reasons why any mind would choose to avoid the truth:

• Revealing the truth will break the lie that’s allowing them to live in their fantasy.
• Revealing the truth will turn what they think is the truth into a lie.

Truth creates the bridges that allow love to be passed between people, so why choose the lie?

It’s either because you’re not ready to let go of your lie or you don’t know how to find the truth.

This inspired me to create be_anhest.

be_anhest is a game designed to teach people how to love deeper and faster by answering questions that draw out truths you didn’t know about yourself and about others.

How does it work?

There are 4 categories: LIFE, INTIMACY, SPIRITUAL, AMBITION aka LISA 😉

Within each category, there are 4 levels of intensity: 1 to 4.

This game can be played by yourself, between two people, or even groups of people!

The rules are simple:

Don’t ask a question you’re not willing to answer and be_anhest!

Here’s an example of how it can be played:

1 – Lisa chooses a category and intensity level she’s comfortable with.

Category: Life, Intensity: 2

2 – I choose and ask a question that I’m also ready to answer.

What is one compliment you’ve received that you completely disagree with?

3 – Lisa answers the question and so do I.

My answer would be that I have a pretty smile. Then I’d share with her the truth about how I had chubby cheeks growing up and every time I smile only made them look bigger! 🙁

Each question has a feature called discover. This educates both of us on the psychology that the question is designed to reveal.

For example, the question above is designed to reveal a trait you are insecure about.

This game is designed to allow people to learn how to love themselves and each other at the same time. Choosing the category and intensity level is a form of consent that all players are willing to be vulnerable, truthful, to love, and be loved.

My mission of be_anhest is to serve as a catalyst for love at the highest level of authenticity.

It’s been a frustrating journey for me to bring this game to life and share it with the world. For the past 6 months, I’ve spoken to many developers, programmers, designers, etc to build an app for this. Unfortunately, I haven’t been able to find the right person.

I’ve gotten so much positive feedback that I’ve decided to launch this game as a beta version to share it with you today.

You can access be_anhest through Instagram here: https://www.instagram.com/be_anhest/

If you like this idea or want to see this game in a full version, please follow the page, like and comment your answers on your favorite questions!

If you have any feedback, suggestions, or ideas, please email me! I’d love to hear from you: anh@anhesty.com

I’ll be posting new questions daily and your feedback and engagement will only validate the demand for this game and will encourage me to work harder to create the full version!

Enjoy 🙂